I'm here to tell you: YOU ARE A HERO.
I guess you know someone, or many, in your family or friends of acquaintances, who always ask:
'Why does this always happen to me?'
A phrase that goes along with 'No one thinks of me', or 'Why does no one ask me what I want'.
You know the sort. I'm sure you do. So here's the rub of it all:
THEY ARE VICTIMS IN THEIR LIVES and they really should be
HEROES!
The single most important thing that I can tell you in life is to always put your needs before anyone else. Well, adults that is, obviously babies are a different matter, but only for when they are babies as there will be a time when they are old enough to also put their needs before anyone else's.
Oh man that is so selfish! Is it? Really?
You know if you've been on a plane (remember air travel?) that you are told to put your mask on before you help anyone else. Right? You know why?
Because you're no use to anyone of you are broken too!
You're damaged - useless - unfit for purpose - unable to be of any help.
So why then choose to be that person in real daily life when actually you will make your family/friends/acquaintances happier if you placed yourself at the top of the table. They might find it weird at first, but hey, they have put their needs above yours for years so their ego will take a bruising.
So sad............forgive me for not being too upset.
Energy Vampires are a real thing. Not just from The Lost Boys or Anne Rice, they exist and all they want is your positive energy.
So, like a knight in armour, a hero, you must build defences and start to repel their forces. Take a shield and slam their shots away; lower your visor and prepare to be drained but your energy is greater so it can defend against it.
the reason they are after your energy is simple: IT IS STRONGER!
You see, you are a hero. Putting you 1st, First, as a champion of your own life, is not selfish; and if your family resist then explain to them that if they too put themselves first then there shouldn't be a problem; all that would be required of everyone is to compromise to what everyone's needs are.
That's called negotiation and appreciation. Those are born from love and not battle, fear or hate.
Putting yourself first is a sign of love, for yourself and for others. If you don't love yourself then how can expect anyone else too?
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Independence is admirable; and imagination indispensable. Quoted from Mary's Monster by Lita Judge. Current read.
Build your power - enable your imagination - strive for independence. Freedom from the tropes of society, from the work 'til you die ideology. Your life is for living, and living is not sitting at a desk or at a counter for eight hours per day. If you choose to do that, then that's great, but in my experience, not many have chosen that life they fall into it and get stuck and then can't find a way out.
A hero always finds a way out of a situation = Be Your Hero.
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